Wednesday, August 8, 2012

A Letter From Heaven

For anyone who has lost a loved one, read for some comfort. I couldn't help but cry while reading this. It's just beautiful. (((THinking of you Jesse)))


To my dearest family, some things I’d like to say,
But first of all to let you know that I arrived okay.
I’m writing this from Heaven, where I dwell with God above,
Where there are no tears or sadness, there is just eternal Love.
Please do not be unhappy, just because I’m out of sight,
Remember that I’m with you, every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you, when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me, and said, ” I welcome you”.
“It’s good to have you back again.
You were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they’ll be here later on.
I need you here so badly as part of my big plan.
There’s so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man”.
Then God gave me a list of things he wished for me to do.
And foremost on that list of mine, is to watch and care for you.
I will be beside you, every day of the week and year,
And when you’re sad I’m standing there, to wipe away the tear.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day’s chores put to flight,
God and I are closest to you in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on Earth, and all those loving years,
Because you’re only human, there’s bound to be some tears.
One thing is for certain, though my life on Earth is over,
I am closer to you now than I ever was before.
And to my many friends, trust God knows what is best.
I am not far away from you, I’m just beyond the crest.
There are rocky roads ahead for you and many hills to climb,
Together we can do it, taking one day at a time.
It was my philosophy and please I’d like for you,
To give unto the world, so the world will give to you.
If you can help someone who’s in sorrow or in pain,
Then you can say to God at night, my day was not in vain.
And now I am contented that my life it was worthwhile,
Knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
When you’re walking down the street and I am on your mind,
I’m walking in your footsteps, only half a step behind.
And when you feel a gentle breeze of wind upon your face,
That’s me giving you a great big hug, or just a s oft embrace.
When it’s time for you to go from that body to be free,
Remember you are not going, you are coming home to me.
I will always love you, from that place way up above,
I will be in touch again soon.
P.S. God sends his love.
~ Unknown


Friday, August 3, 2012

I LOVE MY JOB

Yes, it's the toughest job in the world, but also the most rewarding and fulfilling! Sometimes I let my "grouchies" get the best of me at home and find myself taking it out on my child - NOT IN A SPANKING WAY, but in a "Ay Layla stop already" way. I've heard coworkers, freinds complain a lot about their kids....being kids. Face it we ALL do it from time to time....and it's not fair to our baby. I came across this reading that uplifted me and hopefully will do the same for you :) 

No mom can be "perfect" all the time. We all lose our tempers. We all complain. We all get grouchy. But God knew that when He created us. He knew our flesh would win out once in awhile. That's why He sent Jesus to save us from sin, so we can repent for our grouchy attitudes and move forward in love. So get those grouchies off and let love control you today! 

Let Love RULE

Sunday, July 22, 2012

CHALAZION (KUH-LEY-ZEE-UHN)

So, Laylabug has had a pea sized chalazion on her left eyelid for about 2 1/2 months.  We saw a  pediatric ophthalmologist who told us to continue with warm compresses 4 times a day for 15 minutes. If the chalazion doesn't clear in 6 months when we have the follow up appointment he will schedule surgery to remove it. It doesn't hurt or bother her but it seems to be getting bigger. We were not that consistent about compresses initially, it's tough to do it on a 1 1/2 yr old,  but have been doing them at least twice daily now. I just worry about baby girl having anesthesia for surgery if need be, but can't imagine her sitting still with only local anesthesia. So yes, most definitely praying the bump clears with warm "twaillitas,"  Lord Hear My prayers. Blessings to all! Peace, Love and Laylabug.

Chalazion on left eyelid 

Tuesday, July 17, 2012


I received an out-of-the-blue text from an unknown number this morning. This person was in need of prayer and was reaching out for help with a personal relationship. I read the long text and immidiatley felt sad for this person. I was able to relate to a few things they were going through and thought wow...soomeone else knows exactly how I feel in this similar situation. I replied not knowing who it was, but letting them know I would keep them in prayer. My BFF Sonia has been there for me during hard times and has given me the best advice...and always asks me..
WWJD, "What Would Jesus DO?" Giving it to Jesus is easier said than done, but always works out for the better.....we're only human, we WILL feel some pain during our lifetime on earth...but God will hold our hand through it all..we will get by. To the beautiful soul that text me..you know who you are.....My heart goes out to you. I will keep you in prayer...!

A prayer for anyone who needs it:
Dear heavenly Father THANK YOU for giving your only begotten son Jesus Christ to die on the cross for our sins. Please bless and help the people I know and don't know. Bless all who read this prayer. Lord I ask to heal any troubled relationships and keep us away from the enemy. Bless us with patience until You do Your will. In Jesus name AMEN!!


 

Thursday, July 12, 2012

Happy 7-11 Day....

SO yesterday was 7/11/12 and this means Free slurpees at....you guessed it..7-11!!! We took Laylabug to get her very first CHERRY SLURPEE! It was a fun evening...made the most of something simple....it brought smiles to my babies face.  
FREE SLURPEE DAY =)

Mmm..first sip of her yummy slurpee :)

When we got home she traded her cherry slurpy for her daddy's BIG slurpee....and walked around the house with the giant size cup the rest of the evening...ha ha ha...ayyy Layla!



Here's to making your child smile! Take advantage of every day...spend as much time as possible with your precious blessing called children! God knows my desire for another bambino...even if we don't have another baby I am SO THANKFUL He gave me my LAYLA. AMEN




Tuesday, July 10, 2012

Shedding Tears is natural

Just got off the phone with my momma, I love her so much. I got emotional...feeling the loss of my brother..and started crying to my mom. She made me feel better with her words of love and hope...and then she cried with me. We can't believe Jesse is not here on earth with us anymore. But we both said God took him to Heaven because He didn't want Jesse to suffer anymore! I just wish I could hug my brother Jesse one more time...and feel his hugs. i can feel him sending his love shining down on me from Heaven. God is guiding us every day...and Jesus is holding our hand through the storms in life. I thank God for giving me this life of mine, for my family, for my blessing named Layla...to quote lyrics of a song that I love "I will remain confident in this, I will see the goodness of The Lord" I love that....i love God....I miss Jesse all the time...and Jesse wants me to keep living life being happy and cheery and to show Layla a good example. Layla sees her Tio's picture and she sticks out her lips and wants to kiss Jesse's pic :) It's never easy for anyone to lose a loved one...but look to the sky and feel peace that your loved one is in Heavenly peace...paradise...with out King! I love you Jesse....forever....and ever...Til we meet again brother. I'm sure he's with our beloved Chiquita too..(our Chihuahua).

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sa_KDXL1oXo&feature=colike

Jesse on Drums!!!!
Jesse, me, Eva and little Bobie


Wednesday, June 20, 2012

How Time Flies

Oh My, how time flies! This picture is of my babycakes, Layla at 16 months old. She's grown so much, and is making my heart more full every day. I love my precious angel so much. Also, some sad news...my dear brother Jesse passed away on May 26, 2012. He is with The Lord now, and when it's my time to go, I pray Jesse is the Angel that comes to pick me up. How I miss him being here on earth with me!!! I still cry....and it's still so hard to accept the loss of Jesse. But I know Jesus is holding my hand through this storm, and will guide me through any dark time in life. I love you Jesse Adam Rivera Valadez....always and forever in my heart!!!
My Hero! October 30, 1966 ~ May 26, 2012
See below for precious moments with Jesse.